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Choice, Chance, Change

Change, transformation, alteration what ever you what to call it , it is hard! It doesn’t matter what, or how, or even why; change is hard.

 
So many people resist change for many reasons!
 
Fear
Unknown
Lack of knowledge
 
The the thought of the word can make some of us literally physically ill.
 
Ugg Listen, I am not knew to change. I have been through many changes in my life.
 
I was a young mom and military spouse moving every few years,
Divorcee, single mom, a mom to a child with Down syndrome, Full time career woman, to a work at home mom.
Those are just to name a few! I have seen my share of change and I can promise you that none of them came easy!!
 
Change is inevitable, we all go through it but we are creatures of habit ! But, we are also creatures of change and adaptation.
 
Our habits are created in our brains, and our brains are constantly changing in response to our changing environment. Our adaptability is the secret to our success as a species.
So what is it that makes change a little easier for some than others. Some are able to harness adaptability and use towards something positive, to make those choices, those decisions, of how we want things to be; and who we want to be in this thing we called life.
 
You have a lot more power to become the person you want to be more than you might think. You are not predetermined by external environments, nor by the genes that created you . The secret is to learn to retrain your brain, yup, retrain those habits!!
 
I am not expert, therapist, or psychologist ,  and I have always found it difficult to deal with change. I am speaking the heart here because change is weighing heavy on my heart tonight. 
 
As much as I wanted to think of myself as a flexible go with the flow kind of person, It never went with out internal struggles. Aside from my OCD, I like to be in control of my situations!
I like to know where I am, what I’m doing, where I’m going. I like to have things layed out in black and white on my many lists of to-dos, and ideas.  Basically having a plan and being prepared I minimize the level of uncertainty in my life. Less uncertainty, less stress right?
 
My discomfort around uncertainty means I am usually very in-decisive.   In some ways this has been beneficial;  for example, it’s allowed me to take my time making the right decision on hard choices of change!!  In other ways, it’s been a disadvantage, especially when it does take a long time for me to make those changes, those decisions. I see others in places where I would have been had I not made the decisions sooner.
 
In the past when life threw me curve balls of change, It left me feeling uncertain!  I had to do whatever I needed to do to regain my sense of control.  Keeping my options open or “going with the flow” provoked feelings of restlessness, insecurities, and eventually a whole lot of stress!

My relationship with change, took a indisputable turn three years ago when  I embarked on the adventures of a home based business.
Some people think   Direct Sellers or Multi Level Markets as scam artists, or crooks. Some think of them as annoying, and bothersome.  Well I am a direct seller, a so called Multi Level Marketer and though my name may not be in spotlights just yet I feel like I have already succeeded beyond my dreams.

Change happens, and learning how to cope with that change I learned by being in this business. It has taught me how to be a better me. To live a life without fear! To live for change!  It has taught me that everyday we wake up to a new adventure with no way of knowing where it will take us!!  To adapt easier and accept things  good or bad! To enjoy the ride, to live to the fullest!!

Change is hard, but with out it what do you really have?

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Special Needs Parents, Work At Home Opportunity, Your social connection

How often do you take breaks? No a real break???

🤔

What if I told you that taking a break, a real break, where you don’t think about your business, whether it be for an afternoon, a few days, or even longer could be the best thing for your business and your health, would you consider it? 🙄

Taking a break, a real break with no phones, emails or laptop allows space for the right brain to emerge. This is the part of you where those amazing ideas come from! 😮
The part where all those creative juices starts flowing! 👩‍💻
It like a power charger for your brain!!

I came across this great article on HBR that points to a study that shows overworking yourself leads to several health issues including lack of sleep, impaired memory, and even health issues like heart disease. 👌
https://hbr.org/2015/08/the-research-is-clear-long-hours-backfire-for-people-and-for-companies👈

You begin to lose focus, interpersonal skills, and begin making those poor choices that sometimes could lead to more stress and sleepless nights! It becomes a vicious cycle.

Here are three MORE reasons to give yourself a REAL break!

 I will say it again! Taking care of yourself is the most important part of taking care of your business:
If you are not healthy your business is not healthy! You have to let yourself relax once in awhile!
Eat right, exercise, and yes drink that water!!
👉 Not sure where to begin let’s chat and I will share what I am doing. 😚

Get Away!
Getting away allows you to clear your mind and gain some new perspectives.
Meeting new people, experiencing new things, and just getting some zen time to think will give you some much-needed distance from your business

Most important is spend quality time with your friends and family:

👉This is why we love 💓 our camping adventures!
It gives everything we need to recharge those depleted cells!!

You have heard it before that spending time away with your family is important to being successful but how often do you really do it?🙄

I know you have a good reason not to right?
Trust me I have heard it all! 🙃
🔹You are just so busy!
🔹You can relax when you hit your goals!!
🔹You can’t miss those important deadlines!
🔹You’re afraid you will lose that momentum!

Listen, it will all be there when your recharged!! You work hard and you deserve some time to sit back, relax and enjoy the people around you who are what make it A LIFE WORTH LIVING.👈

 So…..

What do all these have in common?🤔
Exhaustion, lack of energy, not enough time with friends and family, disillusionment and lower motivation ! 😴😕

Episode 38 of YOUR SOCIAL CONNECTION to find out! 🎥📲

I will also share my 3 step proven method to change them!

Healthy Lifestyle, Special Needs Parents

Teal Is The New Orange and Why I love Talking About This

Have you heard about the Teal Pumpkin ?
I first heard about this initiative back in 2016. The Teal Pumpkin Project was started back in 2014 and is becoming very well known across the US.

BUT…. It is not only amazing for kids with food allergies!! Here listen to why I love talking about this!!

 

Special Needs Parents, Work At Home Opportunity

Coast To Coast High Performance Business Coaching

Have you ever wondered if it was possible to create a business from COAST to COAST AND create a 7 figure income❓🗺️

I’m and BEYOND EXCITED and HUMBLED to have 2 exceptional LEADERS in the industry who happen to be my coaches to share with us how they did just that.
WAAAT?? I know , how exciting!! You don’t want to miss this!! 🤗👌

A Little About My Guests——-⬇⬇

➡Glen S. Vondielingen is the founder of Next Level Business Coach who has helped 39 people become MILLIONAIRES 💥💰

He is on a mission to help 12 MORE people become MILLIONAIRS before he retires. Glen has 22 years of EXPERIENCE in BUSINESS which he uses to HELP DEVELOP OTHER LEADERS.💰

➡➡Fallon Zoe is a SOCICAL MEDIA STRATEGIST 🎥📲 She is the founder and creator of COMMUNITIES such as THE TRIBE 🌴, LadyTribe, and the Secret Mermaid Cove 🧜‍♀️ . Fallon knows how to build engagement ORGANICALLY online.

She has taken her community in the Tribe from 0 to over 5,000 members. This year she has been able to create a 6 figure income with her private coaching community within the Secret Mermaid Cove🧜‍♀️ !
I have been a fan of Fallon’s now for about a year and I have seen her grow her pressance on social media! It wasn’t until I finally reached out to her that I FINALLT GOT IT!!!! 💚

YOU WILL LEARN:

✅ Why This Is Possible For Anyone Coast To Coast

✅ Tips on how to build a successful business Using Social Media

✅ Insight into Glen and Fallon’s journey as entrepreneurs and what it was like in the beginning for them.

You DO NOT 🙅🏽 want to miss this interview. As always we will be bringing the Goodness and The FUN!!

It is FREE and EASY to Join!!

Just Click this link!! http://bit.ly/2ymem73

The event will take place on my Facebook click here https://www.facebook.com/dforand 

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